I learned a beautiful word today, ahimsa. The yoga practice of non-violence, as it applies to all living beings.
The essence of ahimsa is non-violence of our own heart. The violence we inflict on each other is only the outward manifestation of the war raging inside ourselves and it is only by stopping the war within that we can stop the war without.Violence is manifested in actions, in words and in thoughts. Thoughts of guilt, shame, resentment, disappointment all have a seed of violence within them. Words like *should* and* must* are the same. When we are unable to forgive ourselves or someone else, when we carry resentment; when we expect far too much of ourselves and put the responsibility of the whole world on our shoulders;
– GaiamTV.com
Ahimsa, sanskrit अहिंसा, from a ‘non-, without’ + hiṃsā ‘violence,’ is one of the five yamas (which give us basic guidelines for living a life of personal fulfillment that will also benefit society) which emphasizes being non-violent, non-injuring, to all living creatures, the earth, and ourselves. It is important to note that protecting ourselves and others does not violate ahimsa. Practicing ahimsa, or non-violence means we “take responsibility for our own harmful behavior and attempt to stop the harm caused by others.”(yogajournal.com)
I think that the practice of ahimsa on the mat and in our daily lives is essential to healing, especially for those suffering with anxiety and depression. I know from experience, the intensity of the guilt and disappointment that comes with anxiety disorders – it is so hard to forgive yourself for things you can’t even control and that can be so frustrating. Plus we are constantly being “violent” to ourselves. You don’t deserve that, you deserve peace of mind. You are beautiful and deserve love from others and yourself. But sometimes that’s hard to do when you’re mind is telling you otherwise. I think that is why meditating and practicing ahimsa is so important to those suffering from negative thoughts and anxiety.
Personally, I’ve always had a hard time with emotional boundaries. Besides attempting to accept, love and forgive myself for my own anxious feelings and thoughts, I’ve always taken on the emotions and journeys of everyone around me, and that’s helpful and hurtful. Mainly – I’m not going to lie – it’s exhausting! In my energy sessions, I’m learning to break the ties and put up boundaries, so that I only accept the positive energy, kindness and feelings from others, so I can therefore focus on my journey and be kind to myself.
Daily yoga practice, I’ve found, is the best way to harness positive energy and now I am excited to bring the practice of ahimsa to my mat. Focus within and meditate on acceptance and peace, do not force poses, accept and love your body and your thoughts. Each morning I breath in-and-out with the affirmation of “have courage and be kind.” I want to tap, accept and emit energy of kindness and non-violence, ahimsa. I found this great article from GaiamTV that really expresses how to practice ahimsa in your daily yoga practice:
On the mat, intend to practice non violence in action and perform the poses gracefully without force. Intend to respect and love your body’s limitations. Have the intention to practice non violence in your mind. Watch and become aware of your thoughts and see if there are any that contain seeds of violence towards you or another. Once you’ve become aware, you won’t need to push it away, just recognize it, watch it come to your awareness and watch it leave. Thoughts come and go. It is by holding onto them and repeating them over and over that they become the source of our violent actions, or violent words. If you just observe them, without reacting to them, you’ll see that they will leave your awareness as easily as they came. – GaiamTV.com
The practice of ahimsa is also greatly intertwined with my newly vegetarian (or vegan) diet. All day I’ve been researching the benefits of a plant-based lifestyle. There are so many reasons why I have decided to become vegetarian (and hopefully vegan down the road), but really what it comes down to for me is, I want to be healthy and live healthy, and I no longer want to be part of something that harms animals. Not to say I am not fully accepting of anyone who wants to eat meat – we are each on our own journey and on this blog I am simply sharing mine. I am on this path of “courage and kindness,” and the pull to to be part of this lifestyle is just so strong, I want to fully embrace the practice of ahimsa, and this is what it means for me.
When I saw that word today, ahimsa, I felt this circle connect, it’s an energy that I want to hold on to. What does ahimsa mean for you? How can you practice ahimsa in your life? Think how the world could change with this practice.
So for today I invite you to join in this practice of ahimsa, non-violence, for whatever it means to you. Bring it to the mat and meditate with compassion for others and especially for yourself. We all need to be surrounded by strength, peace, & kindness, and we need bring kindness to others. 🙂
Well I’m off to watch a delightful hallmark movie, I hope you have a peaceful night.
~little flannel flower~
Resources:
http://www.gaiamtv.com/article/ahimsa-yoga-practice-non-violence
http://www.yogajournal.com/article/yoga-101/beginning-journey/